Ramblings of a mad (ok semi irritated) S/W/F
So the other day someone said something to me. I have mulled over it all weekend and I think it is worth addressing because if it upset someone like myself who is 100% confident in the woman she is and the direction she is heading, then what kind of message does this send to others who struggle with the area of being single or what their life should like or whatever other message can be taken from such an asinine comment. I will skip the boring parts and skip straight to the bulk of what happened which is that while talking to an old acquaintance and catching up, she found out that I was pushing 30, still single, and :gasp: had a career and goals and not just a job to pass some time. In a very matter of fact tone she informed me that my "dating pool had probably already shrunk significantly given my age and I might want to reconsider the direction I was heading and focus less on a "career" and more on finding a man." I very politely told her that I could have bot...