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Are leaders born or built?

I have been struggling a lot with what it means to be a leader lately.  I had this grand idea when I accepted a director position that I would have the chance to really make a difference, to help associates grow and learn then way that I was able to, and to hopefully give opportunities to people who deserved it.  I wanted to be in an environment where I could create a home, a place that people actually liked going during their days, and I wanted to create the best conditions I could for my associates so in turn they would do the same for my residents. So what happens when your grand plans don’t go, well, according to plan? I have always been told that leadership is about unlocking people’s potential to become better.  I believe that this is true, but on the flip side of that, what happens when no matter your effort, someone does not seem to improve or take the reins and step up?  Does this reflect on you and your leadership or is it simply that someone is no...

Are you adored?

You deserve honesty.  You deserve transparency.  You deserve someone who respects you enough to never lie to your heart.  You deserve appreciation.  You deserve loyalty.  You deserve someone who would never abuse your trust.  You deserve Love. You deserve someone who would still be there for you even when everyone else has walked away.  You deserve someone who's REAL.  Never settle for less. I think the older you get the more true this statement stands out. At (almost) 29, I have tried dating friends, I have attempted online profiles, I have given out my number to the man who bravely introduced himself while I was out enjoying my Friday evening.  What I have learned through it all is quality over quantity. At some point the excitement of just dating was replaced with desiring relationships. Desiring closeness.  Having people I can call at the end of a bad day and just  have the option of talking through my thoughts or not talking...